Jaipur, March 21, 2022.
People on Twitter connect over shared interests and experiences, even discover new curiosities and hobbies together. Often through conversations they end up forming meaningful connections that translate into heart-warming tales of companionship of friends, life partners, business associates, among others. Time and again, people come across those who proudly proclaim, ‘#WeMetOnTwitter’.
People may have been physically distant during COVID-19 but they became closer on Twitter, finding solace in conversations and hope in others' kindness. Rather than dealing with mental health challenges alone, many people felt comfortable talking about it, seeking help and sharing their experiences with others on the service.
Amidst these conversations, Ayush
and Monish found each other and forged a special
bond, the former shares:
I’ve always been a social butterfly so
when the world came to a halt, I found it very difficult to cope. At the same
time I started identifying as bisexual, and when I came out to my family, they
just brushed it off. That’s when I started struggling with issues of my deteriorating mental health.
So, I decided to seek therapy. My
therapist asked me to be more vocal about my feelings and even encouraged me to
start talking to my loved ones. But since expressing emotions didn’t come easily
to me, she suggested I get on Twitter and use the platform to get things off my
chest. It seemed like a good idea and so the very next day, I made an account
and started following people with similar interests as mine.
My experience was very positive and I
found people welcoming. Twitter was a platform where I could fully express my
opinions and talk about my sexuality openly. The replies made me feel accepted;
the acceptance I awaited from my parents, I got it here… on Twitter! It took a
while but slowly my mental health started improving.
And then, around May this year, I joined
a DM group on Twitter with people from all around the country. The group was a
safe space for people to discuss all kinds of things. One day, I mustered up
the courage and spoke about my mental health struggles in the group. That’s
when a boy, Monish, replied saying ‘I can relate to you.’ After the session,
Monish DM’d me saying, ‘Do you mind talking to me?’ I knew the loneliness
depression brings with it... and since I was also a work-in-progress, I agreed.
We exchanged numbers and got on a call; the conversation lasted for almost 2
hours!
He confided in me, and told me how he
was experiencing anxiety and panic attacks. He struggled with self-esteem
issues and had nobody to talk to. So I told him, ‘Whenever it gets too much,
talk to me!’ Soon, we started talking daily and he became my safe place too. In
fact, he even drove over 200 kms to surprise me on my birthday! And not for a
moment did it feel like we were meeting for the first time. We spent the entire
day eating local food and just talking.
In just a few months, Monish has become
very important to me. The two of us have helped each other heal. I used to be
someone who kept all his feelings bottled up, but today, I've become very
comfortable with my emotions. And I know, meeting Monish had a lot to do with
it.
[Ever since, Ayush has been committed to
using Twitter to encourage open discussions
around mental health and raise public awareness about it.]